IMOP, all money and education sometimes do to racism is to help you cover it better.
Yeas ago my family member would meet my hubby and declare in front to us, su yuh married a white man. His family would meet me and smile, before I purposely declare I am the black sheep of the family. At Thanksgiving I would ask my hubby if he still favors dark meat. We were at a family gathering and I finally asked, how comes no one ever mention that your wife is black. He pointed to the line heading in the bathroom and said, hon we are the topic of discussion.
There are times I don't care to be the only black one in the room.
Yeas ago my family member would meet my hubby and declare in front to us, su yuh married a white man. His family would meet me and smile, before I purposely declare I am the black sheep of the family. At Thanksgiving I would ask my hubby if he still favors dark meat. We were at a family gathering and I finally asked, how comes no one ever mention that your wife is black. He pointed to the line heading in the bathroom and said, hon we are the topic of discussion.
There are times I don't care to be the only black one in the room.